Showing posts with label Fabulous Mom Tips. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Fabulous Mom Tips. Show all posts
Magic & Miracles Please.
I knew it this was coming. The older Landon gets the more the condition of his arm, the nightly exercises and surgery every year start to build, the more I feel the tension grow.
For the most part we lead normal lives. We are not victims here. We are grateful to have this arm....We believe in MAGIC & MIRACLES.
But last week, in the darkness of bedtime, the honest feelings came to the surface, the snuggling was not enough, there were questions and Landon wanted answers.
In general I hate questions what start with why. I don't think "why me?" benefits anyone. Landon however, being 10, has a right to ask. Sometimes I feel so angry he has to deal with all of this. He just wants to be happy and keep it moving like his Mama. So when the tears came I have to admit, they came for me too. It was heartbreaking.
I let him have his feelings and tried to bring the gratitude forward. He wanted the full story, the real story of his birth, so I told him. He listened intently and had more questions. He's heard it before but I went a little DEEPER.
I tried not to DROWN as I did. I kept the faith.
When the questions were done we snuggled. There was nothing else to say.
I have been doing a lot to keep any negativity, and harm from this guy. I have never made him learn to tie his shoes, I cut up his food, I make things easier. I do it for him. Don't get me wrong, he plays piano, writes with his left hand when we feel he was born a righty, and a lot of other things that are hard for him. However I'm starting to realize it's time. Time to push him to be more independent even though it will be painful. Time to be a little more real. We're 10 after all.
Still....Landon believes in Santa, Disneyland, and sleeps with a blankie. He's still my baby. We just need to shift a little. Let the pain in sometimes so it doesn't overwhelm us. So that's what we're gonna do.
And to all the Moms out there, who have a kid with ongoing issues. Whether they're mental, physical, emotional or all of the above... I'm thinking of you. I'm thinking of the daily decisions you make, the doubt you feel, the helplessness. I'm thinking of you're nights with your kids... And I'm sending you love. All my love... And a little MAGIC & MIRACLES.
Is Your Clutter Making You POOR? Clear Your CLUTTER!
You may have felt clutter was bad for you but.....CLUTTER in Feng Shui terms is:
STUCK ENERGY.
The essence of cluttered spaces – as well as the dominant energy of people who live in cluttered spaces – is based on FEAR mixed with PESSIMISM.
Whoa.
Clearing clutter is NOT EASY.
I have CLUTTER....
Okay A LOT of CLUTTER....
Okay....maybe I'm a low level hoarder.....
I mean I don't have trash everywhere but I do have things from 3 years ago that are still in a pile TO DO.
And you know what staring at that 3 year old pile of TO DO feels like? That TO DO feels like DOODOO and I'm not kidding!!! So I threw it out. All of it. Wasn't even sure what it was. FELT DAMN GOOD. BUT IT'S HARD.
Did you know that the part of the brain which experiences the same pain as break up or losing a loved one is the same part that feels the pain of letting clutter go???!!!!
I, like other Moms, am hanging on by my fingernails trying to remember school parties, homework, house projects, bills due, clothes to the cleaners, gifts to buy, packages to ship...there is a lot to get CLUTTERED about!
To really RID YOURSELF OF CLUTTER you need to:
BE BRAVE. COMMIT. AND...
Bring good energy to the process. Light, music, joy to the process. Otherwise you'll quit. Give up. And STOP.
You may know that clutter EXHAUSTS you. Makes you feel HOPELESS. OUT OF CONTROL. But what if I told you it makes you POOR!!!??
YEP.
Once you de-clutter, you’re not spending money on things you don’t need. The clutter has been removed and with it all that old, stagnant energy. You’ve opened the door for money to flow into your life!
How do you keep a clutter free home? Have any tips to share?
2016 Resolutions- Goals Part 2- Determine Your Priorities and Focus Areas
Now that you've asked the most important questions of yourself from my previous post, the next step in the goal setting process is determining your PRIORITIES.
This may seem obvious but believe me it's VERY important. Most people spend 85% of their lives not doing anything that is a priority in their life. By setting priorities you will learn what is NOT a priority and you can feel free to say NO!
How about that!?
I have learned most of this amazing goal setting from the goal setting queen MONEY SAVING MOM- Crystal. I just LOVE her!
So here we go. Next on the goal setting list: Create a list of 5 or 6 priorities.
Priorities are personal and are very specific to this season in your life. I will share a few of mine to get you started:
1. Having a more connected relationship with my husband- After being married for 13 years this year, I want to ensure that my husband and I make our relationship a priority. The kids, finances, work all seem to take precedence over our relationship. I want to put him first and take time to be together.
2. The Warrior Moms- I want to get my new venture off the ground in a big way in 2016.
3. A fairly clean and organized home- I have been living a pretty cluttered life in my house and just barely keeping up with the mess. I want more peace in my home and that means less clutter!
4. Deeper relationship with my children- as my kids get older and grow and change I want to enjoy, teach, and connect more deeply with them.
These are a few of my priorities. After determining these the next step is to create focus areas within these priorities. 4-5 things for each priority item. Again here are mine to help you get started:
1. Connected relationship with my husband-
-Spend more one on one time
- find more things we have in common
- adventures together
- date nights
- find mentor couples to model after
2. The Warrior Moms-
-Create more connection on the website
-Find sponsors
-budget for first event
-Begin compiling stories for book
-get people to subscribe to my website
3. Clean and Organized Home
- develop a cleaning schedule
-punch list for house
-de-clutter and organize
4. Deeper relationship with the kids-
-find ways to connect individually with each child
-one on one time
-fun nights together/ adventures
Now it's your turn! You can share your goals with me by email or comment and I will support you.
Are You About To Erupt? Magma Mamas
This time of year brings an incredible amount of stress. It's almost VOLCANIC.
But it's more than the time of year. Something is happening my Mom friends, something where we are all about to ERUPT.
WE ARE MOMMY VOLCANOES. MAGMA MAMAS.
We are under pressure. And eventually, it will come to the surface.
Although the Earth is solid rock, it’s under high pressures and temperatures, and this causes rock to melt and squeeze out of cracks in the rock. When it’s underneath the surface, the molten rock is called magma. When it reaches the surface, it erupts as lava, ash and volcanic rocks. The magma collects into vast chambers beneath the Earth’s crust. Since this magma is less dense than the surrounding rock, it “floats” up to the surface, seeking out cracks and weaknesses in the rock. When it finally reaches the surface, we see this as an eruption.
I see women who are under such immense pressure from themselves, husbands, parents, children. They are keeping it together but I see. I see it floating to the surface. Cracking. Breaking. About to ERUPT. We are on a path that is so strenuous, over scheduled, stretched thin we can hardly take it. I keep hearing Moms say: I'm EXHAUSTED. I'm so TIRED. I'm at the end of my ROPE. You keep going even though you are about to blow. Too tired to change.
You see the nature of a volcanic eruption depends on thickness of the magma. When the lava flows easily, it can travel far. When the lava is very thick, it creates a more familiar cone volcano shape. And when the lava is extremely thick, it can build up in the volcano and EXPLODE.
How thick is that lava that's building beneath the surface for you?
Believe it or not YOUR LIFE BELONGS TO YOU. YOU ARE ALLOWED TO QUESTION, SEEK, SLEEP, SAY NO and TAKE THINGS OFF THE SCHEDULE.
You are allowed to take a yoga class instead of taking your kid to a birthday party. You are allowed to sign up for juice boxes for the class party and not to bake homemade cupcakes. You can send New Years cards instead of Christmas cards or an email instead. You can pull back on Christmas gifts and not put yourself in major debt. You can relax, take a bath, take a yoga class, and have lunch with a girlfriend.
IT'S YOUR LIFE. Stop being too busy to enjoy it.
Listen up Magma Mamas. Before you BLOW.
But it's more than the time of year. Something is happening my Mom friends, something where we are all about to ERUPT.
WE ARE MOMMY VOLCANOES. MAGMA MAMAS.
We are under pressure. And eventually, it will come to the surface.
Although the Earth is solid rock, it’s under high pressures and temperatures, and this causes rock to melt and squeeze out of cracks in the rock. When it’s underneath the surface, the molten rock is called magma. When it reaches the surface, it erupts as lava, ash and volcanic rocks. The magma collects into vast chambers beneath the Earth’s crust. Since this magma is less dense than the surrounding rock, it “floats” up to the surface, seeking out cracks and weaknesses in the rock. When it finally reaches the surface, we see this as an eruption.
I see women who are under such immense pressure from themselves, husbands, parents, children. They are keeping it together but I see. I see it floating to the surface. Cracking. Breaking. About to ERUPT. We are on a path that is so strenuous, over scheduled, stretched thin we can hardly take it. I keep hearing Moms say: I'm EXHAUSTED. I'm so TIRED. I'm at the end of my ROPE. You keep going even though you are about to blow. Too tired to change.
You see the nature of a volcanic eruption depends on thickness of the magma. When the lava flows easily, it can travel far. When the lava is very thick, it creates a more familiar cone volcano shape. And when the lava is extremely thick, it can build up in the volcano and EXPLODE.
How thick is that lava that's building beneath the surface for you?
Believe it or not YOUR LIFE BELONGS TO YOU. YOU ARE ALLOWED TO QUESTION, SEEK, SLEEP, SAY NO and TAKE THINGS OFF THE SCHEDULE.
You are allowed to take a yoga class instead of taking your kid to a birthday party. You are allowed to sign up for juice boxes for the class party and not to bake homemade cupcakes. You can send New Years cards instead of Christmas cards or an email instead. You can pull back on Christmas gifts and not put yourself in major debt. You can relax, take a bath, take a yoga class, and have lunch with a girlfriend.
IT'S YOUR LIFE. Stop being too busy to enjoy it.
Listen up Magma Mamas. Before you BLOW.
When Mom's Attack
Don't ever underestimate a mom.
We have been through a lot and I don't just mean surviving high school. We have been brought to the brink of our sanity in many ways. Forgetful husbands, ungrateful kids, homework, meal planning, carpooling, and just trying to work out one or two times a week. We are the plate spinners you see in the circus.
We are tired and were PISSED.
Which is why it's easy to have a disagreement. Whether it's on the fundraising committee for your school in the carpool line, in the office, or in your spin class, some mom is trying to piss us off.
And sometimes we attack. We can't help ourselves. Sometimes it feels good to just go off the deep end.
I've been guilty of this. I have attacked on mom on occasion. While it offers some initial relief. Afterwards I just end up feeling awful. Like a mean bully. I've been on the other end of that as well and it is really heartbreaking and infuriating.
But what if?
What if we all assumed, just by virtue of being mothers, that we are doing the best we can and have the best of intentions. That we're all in this crazy mess together. That there is no need to tear another woman down because, in essence you're tearing us all down. Let's face it moms are running the world. And we are raising the next generation of mothers.
When we attack another mom or bully another mom, or hurt another mom what are we showing our girls?
Disagreements can be mended and fixed. You know what can't be fixed? Terminal cancer. The death of a child. Divorce.
I knew a mom in preschool once. She was lovely. She was a good mother. And she died of cancer. Her Facebook page is still there. Sometimes it comes up on my feed. I want to write something to her. Instead I just remember I'm lucky to be alive. And so are you.
So before that disagreement with that mom becomes out of control... Fix it... Mend it.... Talk it out.
Treat her like you would want to be treated.
Or like you wish you were treated...
Because when you attack one mom....you attack us ALL.
I SWAM IN MY OWN DAMN POOL
I'm going to tell you something. I'm like the rest of you. I have a to do list a mile long. I am constantly feeling like I can never get it all done. There is always more emails to answer, work to be done, laundry to clean, and bills to pay. It's ENDLESS.
Knowing this you'd think I'd let myself off the hook? NOOOOOO.....I don't cut myself a break. I do what I am told, go where I am asked, and wake up and do it all over again. Lot's of responsibility and no taking care of myself.
I can remember a very tearful Wynona Judd telling Oprah she forgot to put herself on the list. She had been through so many bad things and struggles and was not taking care of herself. Hence her weight gain and other issues.
The other day I got sick of myself.
I let the living room by messy. I let the laundry pile up. I let those emails go un answered.
And I took a walk. I exercised. It felt great.
And then I did something REALLY RADICAL.
I SWAM IN MY OWN DAMN POOL.
The pool I NEVER go in because:
I don't want to get my hair wet. I don't have enough time. I need to do laundry. The kids are splashing too much. I don't want anyone to see me in a bathing suit. I don't want to put on a bathing suit. It's too cold. It's too hot....and on and on.
Yes I SWAM IN MY OWN DAMN POOL. AND IT FELT GREAT.
I got my damn hair wet too. That pool has been sitting in my back yard for years and I can count on one hand the number of times I have swam in that thing. What the heck??
I am so busy trying to be there for my kids, husband, job, house I will put anything on the list before myself. A swim in the pool was just too indulgent. PLEASE.
Lot's of women will do NOTHING for themselves. They literally have to be FORCED to. You may not have a pool but you know what I am talking about. When is the last time you: READ A DAMN BOOK? CALLED A DAMN FRIEND YOU WANT TO TALK TO? WENT TO A DAMN MOVIE? HAD LUNCH WITH A DAMN GOOD FRIEND?
Well I want you to DO IT TODAY. Put yourself at the top of the list and feel DAMN PROUD you did. I'm giving you permission. And tell that voice in your head it better KEEP IT'S DAMN MOUTH SHUT!
Knowing this you'd think I'd let myself off the hook? NOOOOOO.....I don't cut myself a break. I do what I am told, go where I am asked, and wake up and do it all over again. Lot's of responsibility and no taking care of myself.I can remember a very tearful Wynona Judd telling Oprah she forgot to put herself on the list. She had been through so many bad things and struggles and was not taking care of herself. Hence her weight gain and other issues.
The other day I got sick of myself.
I let the living room by messy. I let the laundry pile up. I let those emails go un answered.
And I took a walk. I exercised. It felt great.
And then I did something REALLY RADICAL.
I SWAM IN MY OWN DAMN POOL.
The pool I NEVER go in because:
I don't want to get my hair wet. I don't have enough time. I need to do laundry. The kids are splashing too much. I don't want anyone to see me in a bathing suit. I don't want to put on a bathing suit. It's too cold. It's too hot....and on and on.
Yes I SWAM IN MY OWN DAMN POOL. AND IT FELT GREAT.
I got my damn hair wet too. That pool has been sitting in my back yard for years and I can count on one hand the number of times I have swam in that thing. What the heck??
I am so busy trying to be there for my kids, husband, job, house I will put anything on the list before myself. A swim in the pool was just too indulgent. PLEASE.
Lot's of women will do NOTHING for themselves. They literally have to be FORCED to. You may not have a pool but you know what I am talking about. When is the last time you: READ A DAMN BOOK? CALLED A DAMN FRIEND YOU WANT TO TALK TO? WENT TO A DAMN MOVIE? HAD LUNCH WITH A DAMN GOOD FRIEND?
Well I want you to DO IT TODAY. Put yourself at the top of the list and feel DAMN PROUD you did. I'm giving you permission. And tell that voice in your head it better KEEP IT'S DAMN MOUTH SHUT!
Who's On Your Board? Why You Need A Personal Board Of Directors
Do you have a personal board of directors? If not YOU NEED ONE!
Whenever I am at a place of change, renewal or just STUCK IN A RUT, I consult my board. Yes I have my own personal board of directors in my life. I may not meet with them all at once, or take all of their advice, but they are guiding, encouraging and inspiring me. They might not even KNOW they're doing it!
I came up with this idea after sharing my ideas with the WRONG people. When you share your ideas and dreams with a NON BOARD MEMBER, you are left unsupported, discouraged and depressed. The negativity will KILL YOUR CREATIVITY and WRECK YOUR FUTURE. Sound dramatic? It is! THIS IS SERIOUS! THIS IS YOUR LIFE!!!
This is why you need a Personal Board Of Directors.
Here's how it works:
You are going to select 10 people to be on your board. The people do not need to know each other, live near by, or talk to you every day. The key is to get 10 diverse people. 10 people who you admire, look up to, and feel understand you deeply. 10 diverse people from different walks of life. These people may not be your best friends. For example, one lady on my board is MY EYEBROW LADY. She is like a Dali Llama of perfect advice and encouragement. Think outside the box!
Get out a piece of paper and start creating your board list. Remember you don't have to TELL ANYONE who is on your board or if they're on your board. This is a list of people you can SHARE YOUR IDEAS with and get positive feedback. They can help you create and achieve a VISION FOR YOUR LIFE.
Usually family members are NOT board members but there are always exceptions to that rule. My sister in law is on my board and always helps me to see the future more clearly. She knows me and knows what would be good for me.
Once your have your list (you can even start with a board of 3 people until you find your full board), keep it in a special place to refer to. When you are having trouble in your life, or are wanting to make a big change or a wonderful opportunity comes your way you can ask a board members advice and weigh your choices. It's great knowing you are supported no matter what!
The board can change, and grow as you do. You can kick someone off the board if you need to! That's why it's best to NOT TELL THEM THEY'RE ON IT!
Remember this:
AMAZING people—those worthy of being personal board members—tend to be unusually generous with their time. They give of themselves for the development of others. This level of generosity requires that you be highly selective about when to call on them. For daily or noncritical decisions, do not contact your board members. Keep the list of your board members easily accessible (on the wall, in a wallet, in your nightstand) and make sure when you call on them you are ready to present something or get big advice. Otherwise you can hold imaginary board meetings, envisioning what each board member might say about a given situation.
Who's worthy enough to be on your board?
Finding My Fabulous- It's The Little Quiet Things That Make You Happy
With my non fabulous self in tow, I headed to the beach. I needed a break.
I needed:
I started to feel BETTER. Still there was something NOT QUITE RIGHT. I know there's more digging to do. More excavating....
With all the bad stuff that seemed to eat me alive, I started noticing that it was the little things that were making me feel happy. Things like:
My old dog feeling like her old self playing frisbee....
The kids doing a puzzle quietly together.....
And a sunset.....
I'm slowly building on the little things, learning to de stress, and CALM DOWN. Deep breaths.....#SummerSlowDown2015 is my hashtag. See all my slow down moments on Instagram here ONE FABULOUS MOM.
Thanks for your encouragement. It helps when I know what worked for you!
I needed:
I started to feel BETTER. Still there was something NOT QUITE RIGHT. I know there's more digging to do. More excavating....
With all the bad stuff that seemed to eat me alive, I started noticing that it was the little things that were making me feel happy. Things like:
My old dog feeling like her old self playing frisbee....
The kids doing a puzzle quietly together.....
And a sunset.....
I'm slowly building on the little things, learning to de stress, and CALM DOWN. Deep breaths.....#SummerSlowDown2015 is my hashtag. See all my slow down moments on Instagram here ONE FABULOUS MOM.
Thanks for your encouragement. It helps when I know what worked for you!
Ipad Mini Give Away And Bedtime With Sarah Sullivan Bedtime Challenge!
We have been reading the cutest new book before bed. Bedtime for Sarah Sullivan.
"Wearing a sparkly "S" crown, she is Super! Silly! and Sweet! Bedtime for Sarah Sullivan is about the magical hour that happens every night at bedtime, when kids "try" to go to sleep. Readers are invited to travel with Sarah through the wonders of her imagination as she learns what it is like to create her own dreams. Ultimately landing on the moon, Sarah learns that anything is possible, as long as you believe."
The Bedtime for Sarah Sullivan App is now available in the Amazon App Store for Kindle. I love the way it looks on this device! Get it HERE.
I don't know about you but bedtime at my house is sometimes chaotic. That's the truth. And sometimes nightmares or other drama gets the best of the kids. After reading "Bedtime For Sarah Sullivan" and talking to the author Kelly Paniagua, we came up with a brilliant idea:
THE BEDTIME CHALLENGE!
For the next two weeks take 10 minutes (30 minutes would be even better!) to read the book, use the app (on kindle or ipad) and set a positive intention before the kids go to bed.
"Travel with Sarah through the wonders of her imagination as she learns what it’s like to create her own dreams. Ultimately landing on the moon, Sarah learns that anything is possible, as long as you believe. Through the app, children get to immerse themselves fully in the adventure through voiceover, narration and object/character animation."
Take this and be creative! Let your kids create their dreams:) Mom's feel free to take the challenge too. Instead of worrying before bed try creating a positive dream! What a concept!
To FURTHER INSPIRE YOU... WE ARE GIVING AWAY AN IPAD MINI! That way you can use your new Bedtime for Sarah Silverman APP! See below to enter. Lots of ways to up your chances by following a few steps!
Extra entries for Tweeting or FB posts and sharing the give away. Use HASHTAGS: #BedtimeChallenge and #BedtimeWithSarahSullivan and #SuperSarahKids
Good luck and let me know how the challenge goes!
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Meet The Teacher - Teacher Gifts!
As school starts again I have mixed emotions of not wanting the Summer to end but also wanting these kids OUT OF MY HOUSE. HA!!!!!
Might as well start the year off RIGHT with a MEET THE TEACHER GIFT.
I have a bunch I found that are just too cute. Which one should I do!?
1) Thank You Planter-
How cute is this from My Happy Place?
Chalk paint, a plant and a ribbon DONE!
2) Crayon Name Picture!
This is too cute but more advanced for sure from Melissas Bargains.
3) This Survival Kit is adorable.
Might as well start the year off RIGHT with a MEET THE TEACHER GIFT.
I have a bunch I found that are just too cute. Which one should I do!?
1) Thank You Planter-
How cute is this from My Happy Place?
Chalk paint, a plant and a ribbon DONE!
2) Crayon Name Picture!
This is too cute but more advanced for sure from Melissas Bargains.
3) This Survival Kit is adorable.
Clean and Sensible has it as a Valentines Day gift but I think it's great for a meet your teacher gift too.
4) Pencil Bouquet= AKA sheer brilliance from Less Cake More Frosting!
What do you think? Which one should I do? You should see what my bestie did! How great is this??? It's a door hanger!
25th High School Reunion- Old? NO. Accomplished? YES.
Believe it or not my 25th high school reunion is days away. I feel like my 20th was a minute ago! (Here I am with the gals pregnant as hell!) I also feel like how in the world am I old enough to be out of high school 25 years!
I am old (I told myself). Then....I started thinking about what I have been up to for the past 25 years.
Here's just some of it:
Graduating high school
Going to college
Falling in love with Florida
Falling in love with a bad boy
Learning that bad boys who are aloof, suck
Joining a sorority
Making amazing girl friends who are like family
Learning about myself
Going to Europe
Figuring out my career path
Moving to NYC
Doing improv
Doing stand up
Doing jobs to help keep up my art (coat checking, bar tending, waitressing)
Booking my first commercial
Having my appendics out
Acting in my first big movie
Acting in my first off Broadway show
Moving to CA without knowing anyone
Getting a job as apartment manager of a 100 unit bldg
Selling my first screen play
Doing a movie with Kevin Costner
Buying myself a car
Dating
Friendship shifts, changes and losses
Meeting the one
Learning how to let someone in
Getting two cats
Getting married
Honeymooning in Greece
Getting a dog
Buying my first house
Going on safari in Africa
Going to Dominican Republic
Having fertility issues
Doing in vitro
Getting a new car
Getting pregnant
Dealing with a special needs child
Starting a blog
Loving motherhood
Starting play groups
Helping Landon through surgeries
Getting pregnant again
Giving myself injections
Having a tummy tuck
Doing a one woman show
Starting a social media company
Turning 40Taking in a partner
Doubling my business
Taking on new partners
Tripling my business
Learning to juggle work and mommy hood
Learning I didn't like it
Being brave enough to walk away
To be honest I am starting to feel not OLD but ACCOMPLISHED. Have you ever listed it out like this? I think it really shows you all you have done! Have you been to your high school reunion yet? Are you nervous? Excited? Or feeling ACCOMPLISHED??!!
Camp Mommy- what to do with kids in LA!
After all the tennis camp and school camps we needed a break. I decided to start "Camp Mommy". Yes it's a lot more work, me planning all the events and taking them everywhere but I really have loved it. The kids have too!
Camp Mommy Day 1- Kids Space Museum Pasadena
This was the greatest day. So relaxing for me because the kids were occupied and the museum was empty!
The kids played in the water and then after a quick change we toured the rest of the place! They loved the knew Physics Forest with all the cool experiments!!
Camp Mommy Day 2- Annenberg Community Beach House
This is a great place. A community club! When it's overcast the playground and cafe are enough to keep them occupied. There's a splash pad and pool there too!
We went with a group of friends and had a ball!
Camp Mommy Day 3- Boys Day At Disneyland
I had already gone with Coco and a few of her friends to do the whole princess thing, so it was Landons turn to have a boys day at Disney. I love taking them individually so you can focus on what they love to do! We did a park hopper pass so we could go to Cars Land at California Adventure.
We were FINALLY able to ride the Cars ride in Cars Land! It was fast and FUN! Amazing. We also went on the Grizzly River Run white water rapid ride. My friend Erin and I got SO wet we had to buy a whole new wardrobe!! Yes we wore this around!!!
Camp Mommy Day 4- Swimming Play Date At Home!
The kids swam but I made sure I had a delicious lunch and WINE for these sweet Mommy friends! I served arugula salad with shaved parmesan and orzo greek pasta salad!
I loved getting these two together because they had a lot in common and tons to talk about. I love connecting Moms!!!
Well, it's Day 5 of Mommy camp and we are having more friends over today. I have been loving this time before school starts but I am ALMOST ready for things to get going!!!
Camp Mommy Day 1- Kids Space Museum Pasadena
This was the greatest day. So relaxing for me because the kids were occupied and the museum was empty!
The kids played in the water and then after a quick change we toured the rest of the place! They loved the knew Physics Forest with all the cool experiments!!
Camp Mommy Day 2- Annenberg Community Beach House
This is a great place. A community club! When it's overcast the playground and cafe are enough to keep them occupied. There's a splash pad and pool there too!
We went with a group of friends and had a ball!
Camp Mommy Day 3- Boys Day At Disneyland
I had already gone with Coco and a few of her friends to do the whole princess thing, so it was Landons turn to have a boys day at Disney. I love taking them individually so you can focus on what they love to do! We did a park hopper pass so we could go to Cars Land at California Adventure.
We were FINALLY able to ride the Cars ride in Cars Land! It was fast and FUN! Amazing. We also went on the Grizzly River Run white water rapid ride. My friend Erin and I got SO wet we had to buy a whole new wardrobe!! Yes we wore this around!!!
Camp Mommy Day 4- Swimming Play Date At Home!
The kids swam but I made sure I had a delicious lunch and WINE for these sweet Mommy friends! I served arugula salad with shaved parmesan and orzo greek pasta salad!
I loved getting these two together because they had a lot in common and tons to talk about. I love connecting Moms!!!
Well, it's Day 5 of Mommy camp and we are having more friends over today. I have been loving this time before school starts but I am ALMOST ready for things to get going!!!
Getting Kids Excited About Thanksgiving
I love a holiday. Any reason to decorate and I am IN. Thanksgiving, while fun, is one of the more boring holidays for kids. There are no gifts and not a ton of decorations, the things they love the most!
On instagram I saw one of my favorite bloggers Melissa of Love, Marriage and a Baby Carriage posted this:
This is a really sweet story about all the traditions of Thanksgiving told in a very funny and rhyming way. I really enjoyed reading it!!!
I also got:
This book focuses on what's really important about this holiday. Being thankful and grateful for what you have.
How do you share Thanksgiving with your kids?
On instagram I saw one of my favorite bloggers Melissa of Love, Marriage and a Baby Carriage posted this:
This is a really sweet story about all the traditions of Thanksgiving told in a very funny and rhyming way. I really enjoyed reading it!!!
I also got:
This book focuses on what's really important about this holiday. Being thankful and grateful for what you have.
How do you share Thanksgiving with your kids?
Cocktail Club Starts With Beauty and Basil!
It was a wonderful night and it went off without a hitch! Being the first event in our cocktail club, I wanted to really go all out. After all, God is in the details! I started with the theme of Beauty and Basil. I used this invitation from Paperless Post!
I even used a green crocodile liner. I know, I know. I am always extolling the virtues of paper invitations, but for this club wanted it to be easy peasy.
I wanted to have all forms of beauty at the party. Beauty you could see, taste, hear, touch and create!
First, husband had to get the pool and backyard looking smashing. And he did! Sod was in! Mama was happy! Before the party started we had to take of photo of our color coordinating Beauty and Basil attire!
I literally walked into Macy's with an exact idea of the dress I wanted and it was waiting for me. I love that place! Husband looked smashing in his Nantucket reds, green gingham Vineyard Vines shirt and blue blazer!
When our guests arrived they were treated to two signature cocktails from our bartender Robin.
One was a Cucumber Basil Martini with Vodka....
And the other was a Strawberry, Basil Mojito!
We moved outside for our cocktails. Aren't we a colorful and festive group!
We were loving it! Soon my special guests arrived.
Danielle and her cellist . She was amazing and breathtaking! We listened and also watched the movie "Under The Tuscan Sun", playing on our outdoor wall.
Magical! Throughout the night my guests painted on canvases with acrylic paints I had set out for them. One canvas per couple.
The guys got into it!
At the end of the night each guest left with a bottle of Santa Barbara Collection wine and a basil plant! A fabulous evening!!!
I even used a green crocodile liner. I know, I know. I am always extolling the virtues of paper invitations, but for this club wanted it to be easy peasy.
I wanted to have all forms of beauty at the party. Beauty you could see, taste, hear, touch and create!
First, husband had to get the pool and backyard looking smashing. And he did! Sod was in! Mama was happy! Before the party started we had to take of photo of our color coordinating Beauty and Basil attire!
When our guests arrived they were treated to two signature cocktails from our bartender Robin.
One was a Cucumber Basil Martini with Vodka....
And the other was a Strawberry, Basil Mojito!
We moved outside for our cocktails. Aren't we a colorful and festive group!
Soon our Fabulous Chef Manouschka Guerrier of "Single Serving Bytes" was ready with our appetizers!
You may recognize her from Food Networks, Private Chefs of Beverly Hills! You can follow her on twitter @singleserving.
The menu:
Sliced Filet on a Crostini with horseradish
Tomato Basil Soup with Grilled Fontina Cheese
Lemon Basil Shrimp with Creole Cocktail Sauce
Tomato, Basil, and Watermelon skewers with balsamic simple syrup
Ahi Tuna Tare Tare Kiss
and guava cream cheese tartlets!
Danielle and her cellist . She was amazing and breathtaking! We listened and also watched the movie "Under The Tuscan Sun", playing on our outdoor wall.
Magical! Throughout the night my guests painted on canvases with acrylic paints I had set out for them. One canvas per couple.
The guys got into it!
At the end of the night each guest left with a bottle of Santa Barbara Collection wine and a basil plant! A fabulous evening!!!
Best Graduation Gift Ever From Pinterest!
This is such a cute idea that I got from A Sprinkle of This !
Have your childs teachers sign "Oh, the Places You'll Go" from Pre-K to High School at the end of each year and give it to your child at graduation!
Landon graduated from Preschool so I had all his teachers sign it. (I started one for Coco too) I love the idea that I can give it to all his teachers until he turns 18 and then give it to him as a high school graduation gift! Wouldn't that be amazing!?
Have your childs teachers sign "Oh, the Places You'll Go" from Pre-K to High School at the end of each year and give it to your child at graduation!
Landon graduated from Preschool so I had all his teachers sign it. (I started one for Coco too) I love the idea that I can give it to all his teachers until he turns 18 and then give it to him as a high school graduation gift! Wouldn't that be amazing!?
Shine, Share and Get A Mammogram!
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10 Things I Am Loving This Summer!
Granted my summer is being sidelined by strep throat, stomach flu and a now never ending cold. Yes, being sick in the summer is not dreamy. Not one bit!
That's not going to stop me from enjoying myself though!! Here are some things I am LOVING this summer:
Tori Burch Flip Flops:
I have the black ones but I love all of them! They make going to the pool or beach feel fabulous and they're comfortable!! BONUS!
2) My Lilly Pulitzer Josie Tunic (and Coco's matching shift!!)
3) Toasted Israeli (Pearl) Cous Cous with feta, cucumbers and mint!
Simply the best side dish ever and so refreshing!!!
Get the Recipe Here:
4) Swimming with the kids:
Coco loves the pool a juts her little legs out kicking and smiling. Landon now swims pretty much on his own and loves to go under water! Heaven! I love to see how happy they are!!
5) Fornash Bracelets:
Saw them on Tickled Pink and Green and have died for them ever since!
6) My new outdoor dining set from Ikea!
7) Ratatouille- not the dish! The Movie! Have you seen it? It's the cutest thing!!
8) Mojitos! Okay I admit I love them all year long but especially in the summer!
9) Coco's Table and Chairs (given by Cece and Peepaw) and painted by Bestie Katie who is the most brilliant creative person EVER.
10) My Orient Expressed Linen Bag!
Everyone orders it when they see mine! Order yours here:
Your turn! What are the top ten things you are loving this summer! Tell me or do a post!
That's not going to stop me from enjoying myself though!! Here are some things I am LOVING this summer:
Tori Burch Flip Flops:
I have the black ones but I love all of them! They make going to the pool or beach feel fabulous and they're comfortable!! BONUS!
2) My Lilly Pulitzer Josie Tunic (and Coco's matching shift!!)
3) Toasted Israeli (Pearl) Cous Cous with feta, cucumbers and mint!
Simply the best side dish ever and so refreshing!!!
Get the Recipe Here:
4) Swimming with the kids:
Coco loves the pool a juts her little legs out kicking and smiling. Landon now swims pretty much on his own and loves to go under water! Heaven! I love to see how happy they are!!
5) Fornash Bracelets:
Saw them on Tickled Pink and Green and have died for them ever since!
6) My new outdoor dining set from Ikea!
7) Ratatouille- not the dish! The Movie! Have you seen it? It's the cutest thing!!
8) Mojitos! Okay I admit I love them all year long but especially in the summer!
9) Coco's Table and Chairs (given by Cece and Peepaw) and painted by Bestie Katie who is the most brilliant creative person EVER.
10) My Orient Expressed Linen Bag!
Everyone orders it when they see mine! Order yours here:
Your turn! What are the top ten things you are loving this summer! Tell me or do a post!
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