Putting Landon to bed last night, I felt mixed feelings. On the one hand I had managed to keep him happy despite breaking the news we were headed to the doctor for surgery (I said to get a cast on), and that he was about to have yet another surgery and skin graft. This is something that will happen every year, for a long time. This is what he will deal with as he ages. Tonight the movie Rio and a rolling monkey suitcase did the trick. It made him happy, but as he went to bed I watched it sink in. I watched him become quiet and scared. I tickled him, cuddled him and told him goodnight. What more can I do?
I remember hearing about people who would rather give their right arm then let a thing happen to their kids. Now I am there. How do you prepare a child for surgery?
I don't believe in lying to kids, but keeping it simple is best. Landon knows he's getting a cast and going to sleep. That's good enough. Any more would be too much anxiety. I gave him tons of toys, games, his favorite meal, but really just was there if he felt nervous. That's really all you can do.
I hate this for him and wish we didn't have to do this, but we have to. Please send your prayers for Landon having a smooth surgery and an even smoother transition into surgery. We will let you know how he does.
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
9 comments:
Not sure if my comment worked. Thinking of you and praying for a pain free L who will gets lots of attention with his new cast
xoxo
SC
I hope all goes well. Thinking of you and Landon. Only a fabulous mom would know that a monkey roller suitcase helps!
Thinking of Landon today! xoxo
Thinking of Landon today! xoxo
Sending big prayers and hugs to Landon and the whole crew. I wish I could help you out more .
My son just had eye surgery last week. I can't imagine going through this over and over again - I'll pray that your son has a good recovery. (hugs)
Sending you lots and lots of prayers! I think you are doing everything just right. He knows he is going in for a procedure but to fill him in at this age with all the details will do just as you said, fill him with useless anxiety. Cuddle him and love him - he'll do great xo Brie RN :)
Thinking about all of you! I know he is going to be just great!
Hope all goes well for Landon. Your all in my thoughts and prayers.
Post a Comment